Life Update: The Hand that Wounds is the Same Hand that Restores
In October of 2020, eight months after Mo’ died, I officially began a relationship with Mumbi. I knew her from my time as a pastor at Mamlaka Hill Chapel. She’s never been married before.
We are both as surprised as you might be at this turn of events because neither of us expected it. I wasn’t looking to date at that time, and there wasn’t any pressure in my personal and family life that was bearing upon me to move in that direction.
6 Ways of Cultivating Better Friendships.
“Friendship is the greatest of worldly goods. Certainly to me, it is the chief happiness of life.” If we want to experience this happiness that Lewis describes, we need to pursue deep friendships…
7 Practical Ways of Dealing with a Breakup
I knew I had to end the relationship. I had shed more tears in two years than all 25 of my short life combined! We were both Christians who loved God, loved each other, and enjoyed serving in various ministries together. Yet, our relationship deeply troubled me.
Marriage: A Delightfully Difficult Mountain to Climb
We celebrated our first year anniversary this week. Despite the cold weather and the anniversary falling on a Monday, the blues had nothing on us: our home was filled with warmth by our palpable excitement, hearty waves of laughter, and thanksgiving as we reminisced the journey to the wedding and the delightfully difficult mountain we have climbed thus far. Join me as I jot down my musings from the past year …
One year down, the rest of our lives to go!
Regardless of the effort put in preparation for a good marriage, a couple will only learn actively and practically when they tie the knot. I am confident that my husband and I prepared well, but we still had a tone of lessons to learn in…
Be Satisfied in Me
We live in a sexually charged society; there is no entertainment without it, no conversation not alluding to it, no graphical presentation that somehow doesn’t present it. Well it doesn’t end there, we quickly adopt what we love, and we become what we believe. Hardly…
The case for ‘sponsors’
As I sat watching a discussion on K24 Alfajiri, I realized just how much this thing had taken root. It’s no longer a secret affair. It’s public knowledge and to make matters worse, it is becoming acceptable by the day. Am talking about the sponsors’…
Boundaries
We talk about boundaries very many times. How ladies ought to be treated and how not to treat them, and how to relate to men. But I fear we’ve probably stretched the boundary lines a little bit further. Am a young person. I love having…
The purity pledge
Now that everyone I happen to talk to after my last blog post is asking me about mangoes, let me begin by giving updates. Yes I went home. Yes I ate a lot of mangoes. So many that I didn’t see the importance of taking other…
Beyond the Chastity Campaign March
Last Saturday was indeed memorable. Like it has to go into the annals that on the valentine’s weekend Christian students in Kenya rallied to propagate for chastity. Then probably in the days to come we’ll have the old generation telling the young generation, “The other…
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